Introduction to the Pastor

“Happiness is a shift in focus from the gloom of the world to the Grace of Love.”

Hello. My name is Rev Kudlik. I hold a Bachelor degree in Education and a Master’s degree in Divinity (spiritual education) I am licensed Minister with Unity.org, a global, inclusive, spiritual community. READ MORE ABOUT UNITY HERE (CLICK). By profession, I am an artist, educator and coach. So, I run creativity infused spiritual and personal growth programs for all ages, particularly for young people.

 

MY FOCUS

I see myself more as an ‘enabler’ rather than a preacher – a pastor who enables her ‘herd’ to grow in person and spirit. 

I understand that everyone has the knowledge to support oneself in growing and unfolding, however, people often lack the tools to make the necessary discoveries and changes. I perceive my mission to empower seekers to experience their inherent divinity and offer them a non-judgemental and fun surface to learn, experiment, share, grow, commune, etc. in Spirit.  I strive to enable them to discover their own inner knowing of Spirit and Oneness with God. For doing that I often use creative and artistic tools. 

It took me a while to realise that I was intended to become a Unity Minister. I was not sure in what way I could be a minister because I knew that I did not want to be a ’preacher’ or a church minister. 

 Eventually, I realised that being an educator is my calling, except I wish to educate or rather ’enabler’ in the world of spiritual unfoldment and growth.  

As a result, I now would like to become an educator at Unity Worldwide Ministries in Europe. My greatest aspiration is to create and run spiritual education programs for children and young adults using creative approaches such as art and music. 

My programs are playful, interactive, and adventurous. I use coaching, therapeutic-art and meditative tools in the programs I run.

I strive to enable people to gain insights, regain their creativity, expand and flourish on the different surfaces (courses, workshops, seminars, educational settings) I create. I’d like to see more loving connections in the world via people gaining greater awareness of their wholesomeness and as a result, developing compassion for one another.

FOR INDIVIDUALS

Spiritual Enrichment Coaching focuses on mental, emotional and spiritual health. This type of coaching belongs to the field of pastoral care and pastoral coaching. As a Spiritual Coach I strive to support my clients to embark on a fulfilling spiritual journey that constantly unfolds and deepens.

In Spiritual Enrichment Coaching, I support my clients to walk the journey that I call ‘From bitterness to wholeness’. During his journey, you walk from a state of ‘disconnectedness’ to a state of ‘integration’. 

 “For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I have been fully known” 1 Corinthians 13:12 

It means that without Wholeness with self and Oneness with the Divine Presence (God) we are fragmented. This state of ‘fragmentedness’ keeps us in a state of ‘misery’ (anxiety, fear, envy, hate, helplessness, etc. most of the time). In wholeness we are integrated, all different parts of our-self: mind, body, spirit are integrated into one unit via acceptance and healing. 

 

Get in touch with me! (find the form at the end of the page)

In this short podcast, I talk about why I love Unity and how I see it embraces all people and offers a spiritual home for anyone regardless of faith, culture, race, etc

My journey to pastorship

In 1998, I moved to the UK right after my beloved grandmother’s passing. I was in so much grief that I needed support. A friend suggested that I take part in an Insight Seminar in London. Insight Seminars (CLICK HERE FOR MORE INFORMATION) became the refuge for a long period of time. It supported me to understand myself better and encouraged me to find a spiritual path that suits my needs.

As a result, I started looking. I experimented with all sorts of different spiritual paths so to find what works best for me. I went to Buddhist retreats to practise the art of meditation and learn about the philosophy of Buddhism and the art of happiness. Then I experimented with Kundalini Yoga which part of the Hindu tradition. 

Then, I ventured into Sufism, the mystical path of Islam. I became familiar with the lovely chants and the simple meditations on Divine Love.  

Around 2004 I met Rev Steven McAffee who introduced me to Coptic Christianity. Since I grew up during the socialistic regime in Hungary I was not allowed to associate myself with any religious organisations. Though, I am baptised and was explained some practices of the Roman Catholic Faith, I grew up without any religious education.  After meeting Rev McAffee, I realised that though Christianity felt familiar, I wanted to continue embracing the different spiritual ideas and practices I had encountered. 

In 2016 I visited Rev McAffee in the USA who had run classes and held services in the Unity Temple in Forth Wayne, Indiana. By that point I had been feeling lost with regards to my onward spiritual journey. I wanted to find a spiritual organisation that would not impose its ideology on me but inclusive. So, Rev McAffee suggested that I had a counselling session with Rev Glenda at Unity Temple. As a result of my discussion with her I started my ministerial journey at the Unity Urban Ministerial School in 2018. 

In 2024, I became a licensed minister. In June 2025, I became an ordained Minister with Unity Worldwide Ministries. 

The most important work I do as Pastor right now is setting up the European online Unity Spiritual Centre and its Youth and Family Project. PLEASE READ ABOUT IT HERE CLICK)  In the meantime I offer spiritual coaching sessions and creativity infused spiritual and personal growth programs for all ages.

CREATIVITY INFUSED SPIRITUAL AND PERSONAL GROWTH PROGRAMS I RUN:

My Conviction

“”True mentors are as transparent as glass. They let the light of God pass through them” the Rule12 (The 40 Rules of Love by Elif Shafak) reminds me. I will not be able to pastor anyone – including myself – until I can stand in my Truth authentically, giving myself fully and as a result letting ‘God’s light pass through me’; without which there is no pastoring at all. I am not a Guru. I hope to become a person who is ‘pure enough’ that God can use me to serve others.”

For a long time I saw myself as a vagabond who coddiwomples and as a result encounters interesting people and events.